Eric

Hit or Miss but some Real Gems!

Revisado: 06-03-22

Some of the stories were so-so but a solid 2/3 were fantastic, IMHO. The readers were great too.

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Great for guys, actionable tips, spirituality too.

Revisado: 02-27-22 El oyente recibió este título gratis

Pros: This book offers a solid overview of sexuality and eroticism in relationship with self and others. It offers a good overview of important themes like consent, navigating relationships both monogamous and non-monogamous, spiritual aspects of sexuality, overcoming sexual shame, and ways in which mental health and trauma (both personal & societal) and can impact the sexual experience. As a mental health services provider myself I particular liked references to Non-Violent Communication, the Karpman Drama Triangle, how to handle it when a partners trigger one another, and the 10 steps of relationships repair, among other items. The book provides links and references for those who want to dive deeper into several of the areas covered. There are some really good exercises for self-exploration offered in this book that I will recommend to others. I also want to make sure to give kudos to the narrator, who I thought did an excellent job.

Cons: Though the author makes frequent reference to the universal applicability of concepts in the book, regardless of a person's gender or sexual orientation, it is nevertheless comes across that the perspectives represented come primarily from the author's own experience as a cisgendered heterosexual man. Many tips, anecdotes, and lessons are aimed at members of that population. This isn't a huge drawback, nor does the author try to pretend that the perspectives do not come from his own experience. I mention it largely because Queer folk of various types may not find themselves represented as much in it, nor necessarily find the tips as directly applicable to their situation.

Overall: I think this book can be a great introduction for folks who want to begin asking important questions of themselves and their partner(s) as they start on a journey of erotic self-discovery and growth. The topic of sexual shame comes up often in the text, especially the ways in which society tries to put us in limiting boxes that do not necessarily fit who we are. Taking the time to work through the blocks to our greater fulfillment is always worth doing and pays dividends. Mark Casey's book can help offer a solid start on that journey and can offer it in a time-and-cost efficient package.

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Similar to Dresden; more serious and in Baltimore

Revisado: 03-28-18

Would you listen to The Curse Merchant again? Why?

I would listen to The Curse Merchant again because I enjoyed the story, the characters, the setting and the audio production. I had read the book before on eBook, and the dramatic reading added something to the overall experience and mood. I like that the story takes place in a sort of gritty urban reality that varies between posh locales and literal construction work sites.

Who was your favorite character and why?

I think I'd have to say that the protagonist Dorian Lake is my favorite character, mainly because I could relate to him. He is complex, with lots of strengths and weaknesses. He owns up to both, which is admirable.

Which character – as performed by Neil Hellegers – was your favorite?

Back to Dorian for my favorite, because Neil did a great job of displaying his range as a person, from tough to vulnerable.

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

Yes, but I don't want to give away any spoilers!

Any additional comments?

Looking forward to listening to The Curse Servant, the next one in The Dark Choir series.

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