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Aslen did a lot of work- but is it going to help?

Revisado: 03-01-18

I got a little boost of confidence from this book, however he says that it doesn't matter what you look like, I've got to challenge that. also he actually has a link to a test, he gives it to you in the audio book and if you take the test online it shows you what kind of person you are and has a video that explains your personality type with a great explanation on how to better balance yourself. I believe the test yielded accurate results, it says i'm a romantic, which is right. but when I saw what Aslen actually looks like, I was surprised, he may not be fat, but he's not terribly handsome (sorry aslen) and even is going bald. He doesn't say anything specifically about what to do if you've always been on the heavier side. So I think he should include a very direct answer to what I really think is a prerequisite to following his advice: You probably need to be reasonably thin, you might get away with a dad bod but no more than that.

Its noticable with the younger generation, that even women who are a 2 think they can get a 10, and that is wildly out of touch with reality, this book will remind you that you need to be the best version of yourself and even has info on how to do this. his examples sound far fetched for someone who's out of shape, i've been both fit and fat and his advice won't work for fat. So get fit first:)

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I don't think i can do this - I'm a bad liar

Revisado: 09-27-17

So this book basically, in most cases is good for helping you get ideas for "victimizing" others. Seems like an aweful lot of lying, bullshitting and acting. now.. I do a reasonable amount of acting in the beginning of when I'm dating, it helps to capture the
other's attention and imagination but beyond making things fun and interesting I don't need to bullshit or lie.

One of the reasons may be that I have had disappointment with one night stands and lying as much as this book suggests can probably only be kept up for a short time or for a one night stand.

I consider this to be a pickup artist book and after listening to a substantial portion, I decided i will not be a pickup artist! The more you know!
I mean.. Knowing is half the battle and the other half is not getting laid by "victims" because of your principles.

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Narrator quiet, good info to think about

Revisado: 09-27-17

Yeah, I'm 1/2 way thru this, but I can barely hear parts of what she says, she just has a quiet, muffled voice, I'm pretty fed up. But I need the info in this book so.. BLAST THE STEREO IN YOUR CAR, and I have some amazing equipment in my DJ studio and I actually have to raise the volume to 3/4 of max to hear every word. As for the content, i've been putting people to shame with my approach to learning more about Poly, studying up before I make bad mistakes, some of the more experienced I know never did any research into the subject they just "did it". I think that some poly people could benefit because they bring up a lot of possibilities, and all sorts of details I never thought of. it's a thoughtful book, it has valid points. IF I CAN HEAR IT!! thank you to the authors.

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Helped me move on

Revisado: 04-27-17

Well, this book was suggested to me by a friend who is a psychologist. This book helps you draw parallels between yourself, or the people you love and the three types of people. Avoidant, Anxious and Secure. This book will give all the examples of classic things these types do and do not do. It was obvious I am a Secure type... the girl I was dealing with I thought was Avoidant based on the examples given in the book and what this girl has said and done. This book will give you some ammunition, it will help you justify your feelings. I think once you identify the type you are and of the person you are with or want to be with, you can move on or identify new people as certain types so you know your compatibility. am i making sense? check it out if you are struggling in a relationship and sh*t just can never get on the same track.

Keeping score
I realised this girl was Avoidant, Told her she's being avoidant and she dumped me
3 months later she came back after doing a lot of thinking and she says she is not
avoidant, was just overwhelmed with work and life and had to cut something out.
She's back but now I'm not so deep, or intense... she may not be avoidant but
my eye is on it.

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