
Girl Boner
The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment
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August McLaughlin
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“Equally fun, risqué, and informative, this is a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” -Publishers Weekly
In a culture where female empowerment is used to sell everything from sex toys to soap, most sex education continues to bypass pleasure. The results are stark - we’ve grown accustomed to slut- and prude-shaming and allowed others to dictate how a “good girl” is meant to feel, act, and look.
In Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment, August McLaughlin offers an unfiltered blend of personal narrative and practical tips on relationships, solo play, journaling, gender issues, and more. From the perks of “Jilling off” to the 7 types of ‘gasms, Girl Boner will “empower you to own your sexual self and enjoy…your whole life a great deal more.”
So, what exactly is a girl boner? We dare you to find out.
©2018 August McLaughlin. (P)2018 Brilliance Publishing, Inc., all rights reserved.Listeners also enjoyed...
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- Rose
- 08-27-19
I wish I had this book years ago
Thought provoking, honest, relatable, empowering. Absolutely loved it! Would recommend to people of all genders
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- KM Huber
- 02-07-19
A Health and Sexuality Book for Everyone
Girl Boner is a health and sexuality book for everyone. I am in my mid 60s and as I was listening, I couldn't help but wonder what the world might look like if this book had been available 40 or even 50 years ago. No doubt, a very different world. However, we have the book now, an empowering resource for ALL ages. I could not be more serious about that statement.
This is not your usual health and sexuality book. It really is one-of-a-kind, refreshing and thought-provoking. Its tone invites and you can hear that in the author's reading.
It's McLaughlin's story, yes, and through her experience, we are able to explore our own sexuality, wherever we are on the gender spectrum. The book is a conversation, an inviting balance of information and anecdote, humor and poignancy. No subject is taboo; no one is excluded. A real breath of fresh air.
Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment is a resource for life. As McLaughlin says, “there is no finish line, no level of ‘perfection’ to reach.” No, there is not, and there are a lot of Girl Boners along the way.
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- Krista
- 03-15-20
loved it !
opened my mind to so much new information, I now listen to the podcast and have found so many other interesting people as well from listening
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- emmalynn goddard
- 10-02-19
Inspirational and educational
Throughout this book I was continuously surprised and intrigued by the heartfelt educational stories which furthered my knowledge on female sexual empowerment. I highly recommend to anyone of any gender, age, or sexual orientation. After listening to this book I could understood myself more and be respectful of others sexual journeys. Lovey all around.
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